Mother’s Day Tribute
Blog, Talk About Town — By admin on May 7, 2010 7:26 amThe Motherload: Strings Attached
By Pat Fream I remember struggling to get my squirming infant out of a soggy bathing suit after an arduous swim lesson, while my other two children wrestled over who would be the first in line at the water fountain. A stranger looked on with quiet dismay then said, “I don’t envy you – having kids – I can borrow my sister’s for an afternoon anytime and then give them back – no strings attached.”It’s true – motherhood comes with strings.
While you have exclusive rights to first-ever smiles, rollovers, footsteps, and word mastery, you are also on the hook for midnight feedings, gas attacks, ear infections, and tantrum control. It’s easy to take the unbridled love, the exuberant self-discovery, the academic strides, and the leap into responsible personhood. But along the way you must also endure countless safety hazards, obnoxious coming-of-age lessons, heartbreaking relationship struggles, and an impossible amount of unproductive worry.
As mothers, it is our job to guide, inspire, teach, model, reprimand, encourage, support, and love with all kinds of boundless might. Add to that, we are basically on duty 24-7, and in it for life. Some days it feels like the Motherload is just too heavy to bear. The next it feels like the only thing keeping us afloat.
This Mother’s Day, I urge you to give yourself a great big heartful hug. You may not always do the job well, but I can bet, you are doing your best. Whether you are the mother of toddlers, teens, young adults, or adults with their own offspring, take a moment to celebrate yourself.
Motherhood is really quite a feat. A lifelong endeavour – heartstrings attached.


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Happy Mother’s Day to all.,:~
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